In the Pink

Anne Elvins | Feb 08, 2017

In 1990 a small group of women formed a support group in South Frontenac.  They called themselves  'The Sydenham/Harrowsmith Breast Cancer Support group'.  At first the group met monthly at each others homes, but as the group continued to grow a larger venue was needed.  St. Paul's United Church in Harrowsmith opened their arms in welcoming support.  On the second Tuesday of each month approximately 25 women would gather for a hearty home-cooked lunch,  after which the church offered a private meeting space.   The meetings often included guest speakers detailing new treatments & relaxation techniques. However, the main component of each meeting was always camaraderie with a strong emphasis on humour.  At the close of each meeting a member was presented with a fresh flower arrangement provided by Christine Kennedy, the  owner of  Memory Lane Flowers in Sydenham.  Christine is a true 'petal pusher' and supporter.  For more than a decade she has donated a monthly bouquet and each Christmas every member is presented with a gift wrapped pink carnation.

Sadly, when St. Paul's United Church closed in 2016 many groups were left homeless.  At least it felt that way.  The breast cancer support group had established a strong bond with St. Paul's; more so with the volunteers who catered the Tuesday luncheons.  How could we possibly replace those smiling faces and willing hands.  Enter Yarker.  Calls were made and soon the group was invited to hold lunches at Riverside United church.  Lunch is served at 12 noon.  The cost for a home-made lunch is $7.00 and it consists of a soup choice, sandwich, dessert and beverage.  After each meeting the minister; Stephanie Klaassen has provided us with a private meeting space.

Along, with the new location it was also decided that the group needed a new name.  This support group now has approximately 45 members coming from Kingston, Amherstview as well as  several of the small towns in South Frontenac.  We offer hope, inspiration, friendship, education, laughter and sometimes tears.  But most  importantly a feeling that you are never alone on this journey.  There is nothing more hopeful to a newly diagnosed person than meeting a group of healthy, happy, IN THE PINK survivors.

The next meeting is on Thursday, February 16th at 12 noon.  The volunteers at Riverside United church need to know how much food to prepare so if you plan to attend call Ann at 613-572-1368 or Kim at 613-214-1329.

May we do more to keep our small country churches open.  The outreach is so much more than a Sunday service.